Happier
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Happier

Tal Ben-Shahar

4.6526 learners

After winning Israel’s national squash championship at 16, Tal Ben-Shahar expected lifelong joy—only to feel empty hours later. That moment sparked his quest to redefine happiness, shattering the myth that success equals lasting fulfillment. In *Happier*, he argues true happiness isn’t fleeting pleasure or pain-free ease, but a sustained state blending present joy and long-term meaning. He breaks down four life patterns: the hedonist chasing instant gratification, the rat racer delaying joy for future success, the nihilist trapped in hopelessness, and the fulfilled person who balances today’s pleasure with tomorrow’s purpose. Packed with actionable tools—from the MPS model to find meaningful work, gratitude journaling, and "happiness catalysts" (small, joyful, purpose-driven acts)—the book guides readers to build lasting happiness habits, nurture unconditional relationships, and prioritize well-being over material gain. Ben-Shahar proves happiness isn’t a destination, but a daily practice anyone can master.

Flow StateGratitude PracticeFulfilled Life PatternMPS ModelHappiness Habits
Concept

Self-concordant Goals

These are goals you choose out of internal passion and personal values, not to please others or chase external rewards like money, fame or social status.

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Method

Set Self-concordant Goals

List all your possible goals, filter out those you choose out of internal passion instead of external pressure, then focus on these selected goals.

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