Fight the Fear: Reader Reviews & Ratings

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Fight the Fear

Mandie Holgate

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Arnold

This book helped me realize my top value was family, not money, so I changed my career goals to match what actually matters to me.

Bertha

The exercise to list ten values and compare them in pairs really helped me see what actually matters to me instead of chasing other people's goals.

Leo

The exercise to list ten personal values and then compare them in pairs really helped me stop chasing a promotion that felt empty. It forced me to admit family time matters more than status, which was a hard but necessary realization for my career path. I feel less guilty now about prioritizing my kids over endless work hours because the book gave me a clear framework to justify it without sounding unprofessional to my boss or colleagues who still value hustle culture. This practical approach to uncovering core values makes the advice feel real and actionable instead of just another motivational speech that ignores the daily struggles of balancing work and life in a competitive American job market where everyone seems to be running on empty. The story about the Chicago entrepreneur who reframed her money goal into funding family trips in Portugal perfectly illustrated how shifting focus to values creates genuine motivation rather than burnout from chasing arbitrary targets that don't actually matter to you personally or bring long-term fulfillment when you finally reach them after years of sacrifice.

Wallace

This book helped me stop chasing fake success and find my real path.

Tamara8

The values exercise really helped me stop chasing other people's definitions of success.

Thalia27

The core values exercise changed how I see my career priorities.

Dominick

I tried the values exercise with pen and paper, and realizing my top priority is family time instead of salary really changed how I see my work.

Phillip

The values exercise made me realize I was hiding my true self at work, causing burnout. It taught me to prioritize family over status, so I can now build a career that fits my life instead of forcing myself into a mold that drains my energy every single day.

Franklin

The values exercise really helped me see what actually matters versus what I thought should matter.

Nell18

The values exercise helped me realize my top priority is family time over career status.

Darcy

The exercise to list ten personal values and then compare them in pairs really helped me see where my career path was actually taking me versus what I truly care about.

Wesley

This book helped me realize my top value is family, not money, so I changed my goals to fund outdoor trips.

Irwin

Reading about the Chicago client who reframed her money goal into funding family trips in Portugal made me cry. It showed me how shifting my focus from arbitrary targets to core values like connection actually reduced my stress and made my work feel meaningful again rather than just a grind.

April95

This book helped me realize my top value was family, not money, so I stopped chasing empty goals.

Rae

Finished with a good mood—already shared with a friend.

Buck

The core values exercise really helped me prioritize family over status.

Bea

The exercise to list ten core values and then compare them in pairs was a game changer for me, helping me see that family mattered more than status.

Palmer

The exercise about listing ten things that matter and comparing them in pairs helped me finally see that family time matters more than my current promotion path.

Derrick

I love how this book cuts through hustle culture noise to give simple, practical steps for building a career that actually fits you.

Ken

The core values exercise really helped me realize I was chasing the wrong things.